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Dec 20, 2025 /

A Selfish Christmas

Christmas isn’t about getting treated like royalty. It’s about worshiping the King who came to serve. From Mark 10:45, Bobby Bosler challenges you to make this break a season of ministry, not entitlement.

Bobby Bosler shares a simple Christmas challenge from Mark 10:45: Jesus came not to be served, but to serve. With Christmas break and “time off,” it’s easy to drift into an entitlement mindset, but Jesus’ coming calls us to a different posture. This episode urges young people to make Christmas break a season of joyful, intentional ministry at home, in the church, and in the community.

Topics Discussed

  • Snow culture shock: Wisconsin vs. the mountains of West Virginia
  • Why Mark 10:45 is a “Christmas verse” in context
  • The temptation of “me-first” living during breaks and holidays
  • Entitlement at home (parents, siblings, routines, expectations)
  • Serving practically in your local church during Christmas events
  • “Don’t be a jerk this Christmas”: choosing humility and helpfulness
  • Total surrender expressed through ministry that benefits “many”

Key Takeaways

  • Jesus had every right to be served, yet He chose to serve. Follow His example.
  • Christmas break is a gift, not a license to drift into selfish patterns.
  • The most encouraging thing you can bring home is a servant spirit.
  • Serving your family and church is not “extra,” it’s part of living surrendered.
  • A Christ-centered Christmas looks like giving yourself for the good of others.

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Bobby Bosler is director of Thee Generation and pastor of Fellowship Baptist Church in Fairmont, WV. He, his wife, Abi, and their four children traveled the country for 14 years in evangelism, reaching teens with the gospel and conducting revival meetings.