E453 /
Dec 1, 2025 /

Fear of Wasting Your Life

Many young people quietly wrestle with the fear that they’re falling behind or missing God’s plan. In this honest Faith Talks episode, Janna shares how God met her in that pressure and began reshaping what a meaningful life truly looks like. If you’ve ever wondered whether your story matters, this conversation will steady your heart and point you back to the One who never wastes a surrendered life.

In this Faith Talks conversation, Janna opens up about a quiet but heavy fear many young women feel yet rarely express: the fear of wasting their lives. Through honest reflections on comparison, expectations, and the pressure to measure up, she shares how God has been reshaping her perspective. Her story offers a refreshing reminder that a life surrendered to Christ is never wasted, even when the path feels unseen or slow.

Topics Discussed

  • The subtle ways comparison fuels fear and insecurity
  • Why “falling behind” is more about perception than truth
  • Learning to trust God with timing, calling, and identity
  • How hidden seasons often become the most shaping ones
  • What surrender looks like when fear gets loud
  • Allowing God to define significance instead of culture or peers

Key Takeaways

  • Fear of wasting your life usually grows in the gap between what you expected and what God is actually doing.
  • Comparison blinds you to the quiet work of grace happening beneath the surface.
  • God never wastes obedience; He wastes nothing surrendered to Him.
  • Slow seasons are often the most formative, teaching humility, trust, and resilience.
  • The antidote to fear isn’t striving harder but resting more deeply in God’s faithfulness.

Faith Talks is a monthly program on the Thee Generation Podcast designed to help young ladies grow in faith and live it out daily. Have a question for the Faith Twins or our guest? Email faithtalks@theegeneration.org.
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Janna "Faith" (Van Gelderen) Shoultz is co-host of the Faith Talks program, wife of Judson Shoultz, and daughter of Dr. Jim. She loves coffee, adventure, and discipling others to walk with Jesus