Prayer that Wins
Have you ever felt like your prayer life was stuck on repeat? You try to pray, you want to pray, but it feels like you’re pushing against a wall. Or maybe, like a lot of teens, prayer for you has turned into something you only do when things get really tough. Here’s some good news: you’re not alone, and God has a better way for you.
The Power of Persistent Prayer
In Colossians 4:2, the Bible says, “Continue in prayer, and watch in the same with thanksgiving.” Did you notice that word “continue”? It’s not just telling us to pray casually; it’s actually encouraging us to persist—even when it’s tough. Prayer is hard work. It requires determination, like training for a race or practicing your favorite sport or instrument. You don’t always feel like doing it, but you push through because the results are worth it.
Think of prayer like this: imagine you’re running in a race. You’re focused, your muscles are aching, you’re tired, and the finish line still seems far away. It’s tough, right? But when you push through that pain, you experience victory. Prayer is similar. Even when you face resistance—whether it’s tiredness, distractions, or feeling overwhelmed—keep pressing forward. The Apostle Paul says in Colossians 4:2, “Continue in prayer.” This isn’t a gentle suggestion—it’s a strong encouragement to keep praying, even when it’s difficult.
Eyes Wide Open
But prayer isn’t just about persistence; it’s also about being alert and aware. Paul continues by saying, “watch in the same with thanksgiving.” That word “watch” is important. It means paying close attention to what’s happening around you—like driving carefully at dusk when you know deer could jump into the road at any moment. Real prayer is vigilant. It’s keeping your spiritual eyes open for opportunities to pray about the needs around you.
Think about your school, your family, your neighborhood. How often do we walk right by someone who’s hurting and don’t even notice? If we’re truly watching in prayer, we’ll see those opportunities. Maybe it’s a friend who’s going through a breakup, or a family member who just got a scary diagnosis. Maybe it’s even someone you barely know at school. Vigilant prayer notices those moments and turns them into prayers right then and there. Don’t wait for someone to ask you to pray—just pray.
Praying with Expectation
There’s one more important piece to this kind of prayer: thankfulness. Paul instructs us to be grateful in prayer. He says to pray and watch “with thanksgiving.” But wait—how can we be thankful for things that haven’t even happened yet?
Here’s the secret: when you’re grateful in advance, you’re actually demonstrating faith that God is going to answer. It’s not wishful thinking or being unrealistically optimistic; it’s trusting that God is powerful and able. It’s saying, “God, I don’t know how you’re going to handle this situation, but I know you’ve got it under control, and I’m going to thank you right now.”
Imagine praying about a problem in your life and saying, “God, thank you that you’re already working this out, even if I can’t see it yet.” This type of prayer changes your attitude, fills you with hope, and builds your faith.
Prayer Isn’t Passive, It’s Powerful
So, what does all this mean for you practically? It means your prayers don’t have to feel empty. They don’t have to bounce off the ceiling. They can have a real impact. If you’re willing to pray with persistence, keep your eyes open to the needs around you, and thank God in advance, you’ll start seeing your prayer life change dramatically. You’ll start seeing answers that you couldn’t have imagined, doors opening you thought were locked tight, and opportunities you never expected.
God invites you into a life of prayer that actually wins—one that sees Him moving, lives changing, and impossible things becoming reality. So here’s a challenge: this week, commit to praying diligently, keep your eyes open for needs around you, and choose to thank God in faith. You might just be amazed at what God does next.
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Prayer that Wins
Bobby Bosler is director of Thee Generation and pastor of Fellowship Baptist Church in Fairmont, WV. He, his wife, Abi, and their four children traveled the country for 14 years in evangelism, reaching teens with the gospel and conducting revival meetings.
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