Have you ever felt the weight of wanting people to like you? It’s natural to desire approval, but when it comes to following Jesus, this desire can quickly become a roadblock. In Philippians 1, the Apostle Paul teaches us a profound lesson about what truly matters in life—and it’s not being liked or fitting in. Let’s take a closer look at Paul’s story and find out how his example challenges us to live boldly for Christ.
The Gospel Breaks Barriers
Paul wrote the book of Philippians while imprisoned in Rome, a situation most of us would find discouraging. Yet, Paul saw his confinement as an opportunity. He said, “The things which happened unto me have fallen out rather unto the furtherance of the gospel” (Philippians 1:12). Instead of being silenced, Paul’s boldness inspired others to share the gospel confidently.
Imagine that! While Paul was stuck in chains, the message of Christ was spreading far and wide. People everywhere were emboldened to preach. But not everyone who spoke up did so with the right motives.
Not Everyone Will Support You
In verses 15–17, Paul points out a surprising reality: some people preached Christ out of love, inspired by Paul’s example, but others did so out of envy and strife. Their goal was to add to Paul’s troubles, not to support him.
It’s hard to imagine how frustrating that must have been. Yet Paul’s response is incredible. He said, “What then? … Christ is preached; and I therein do rejoice” (Philippians 1:18).
Paul cared more about the message of Christ than about his reputation or circumstances. His focus was on Jesus, not on being liked or treated fairly. That’s what it means to live boldly for Christ.
Facing the Cost
As you step out in faith to follow Jesus, not everyone will understand or support you. Some might criticize or mock you, and that can sting. But when those moments come, take a page from Paul’s life and ask yourself, “What’s my priority? Is it being liked, or is it making Jesus known?”
Paul’s example reminds us that life isn’t about us. If we’re focused on gaining approval, we’ll eventually hit a wall. But if we’re centered on Christ, we’ll find the courage to move forward, no matter what others think.
A Challenge to Live Boldly for Christ
Here’s a practical way to apply this truth. Write down three things you value—things you enjoy or rely on. Then, commit to going without those three things for 24 hours.
Maybe it’s food, social media, or free time. The purpose isn’t to deprive yourself but to show God that He’s more important than anything else. This small act of surrender will help you examine where your priorities lie and grow in your dependence on Him.
Making an Eternal Impact
The world needs teens who are willing to put Jesus first, no matter the cost. When you live boldly for Christ, your faith can inspire others just as Paul’s faith inspired the early church. Even if not everyone understands, your life can have a lasting impact for God’s kingdom.
So, what’s your next step? What will you surrender today to show that sharing the gospel matters more than anything else? Let’s follow Paul’s example and live with bold, unshakable faith.
Bobby Bosler is director of Thee Generation and pastor of Fellowship Baptist Church in Fairmont, WV. He, his wife, Abi, and their four children traveled the country for 14 years in evangelism, reaching teens with the gospel and conducting revival meetings.
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